i agreed to meet a guy i met online, now im having second thoughts?

im 22 and i tried an online dating site. i met a guy and enjoyed talking with him. aftera couple days he suggested we meet sometime. i said sure.
now im having second thoughts. i made this account not even a week ago and didnt expect to meet anyone or get asked out. im 22 and ive never been asked out or kissed or anything and i jsut dont know if this is how i would want to go about my first date. im mad at myself for agreeing because i dont want to bail on him, i just dont know the best way about turning him down, whether i say something to him or just stop responding. im seriously debating deleting my account soon
i also dont think im that physically attracted to him as shallow at tht is


Okay, I'm a big fan of online dating and have a lot of experience on there so let me offer you some advice. First off if you don't want to meet someone why did you go on an online dating website? Your essentially leading everyone on who you talk to if you don't plan on meeting.

I think you woultimee to meet someone and did want to meet someone but your inexperience dating is making you self concious and worried.

Your 22, it's time you get out and start dating, start meeting people. I know it can be nervous but just go and have fun. Go somewhere public for safety. Maybe do something where there's an activity so it's not just nervous chat or staring at each other. Maybe corny but I'm thinking miniature golf or go play pool or something where there's an activity to distract as opposed to just sitting at a bar with nothing to do but stare at each other and talk. That was ust the activity will create conversation as well.

As for you not being physically attracted to the guy i still think you should go out with him. Maybe a good way to get rid of some of that first date nervousness. If it was a guy you were super attracted to you would be even more nervous with this guy go out, if nothing else maybe you meet a friend. Best of luck to you.